Dear Friends,
Welcome to my new blog which will be updated on a regular basis with news, articles, and links to help you understand the complexities of staight/gay marriages. I welcome your comments and hope you will share your thoughts and feelings with the thousands of people who will be reading the words here. If you need need help or support, you can always reach me at Bonkaye@aol.com. Never feel as if you have to go through this journey alone. Reach out--and help will be there.
Love, Bonnie
Thank you Bonnie for being there for all of us caught in this situation. Without your support I'm not sure I could have survived those early days after I learned my ex-husband is gay. And letting me know I was not alone was the greatest gift you could have given me.
ReplyDeletehi bonnie ..i love your new web page ..thank you for being here for all of us women going through this closeted gay husband thing cathy
ReplyDeletebonnie ..i loved your radio talk show this past sunday ..i always get something out of your shows ..
ReplyDeletekeep them going ...you are reaching lots of people ...cathy
hi bonnie ..i just got done reading the new book called ..over the cliff ..
ReplyDeletei got some answers to questions i had .
like how can he say he loves me when he has sex with men ..
how could he hug me and give me his little peck kisses
how could he cry when id say im done with this ..
how come when ive already kicked him out , he still wants to come back ..
i feel more sorry for him now then i did before i read the book ..
although i always felt sorry for him because im the kind woman that has a need to take care of and try too fix things
i learned in counciling , that i always tryed to fix my mom and dad too cathy
hi bonnie ..
ReplyDeletei just wanted to tell you i loved you radio show with paty and misty this past sunday
you guys hit the nail on the head with so much stuff for me
one thing was .how my husband took care of himself everyday and didnt care about my needs at all ...he would be in the bathroom on the tolit talking to his friend on the phone ..i would think how strange that is he does that ..here he was playing with himself while i was in the other room
and he would say ..is that all you think about is sex ..i used to think he just wasnt into it ..wow was i wrong ..he got off everyday ..just wasnt with me ...cathy
hi bonnie ..
ReplyDeletei just wanted to tell you i loved you radio show with paty and misty this past sunday
you guys hit the nail on the head with so much stuff for me
one thing was .how my husband took care of himself everyday and didnt care about my needs at all ...he would be in the bathroom on the tolit talking to his friend on the phone ..i would think how strange that is he does that ..here he was playing with himself while i was in the other room
and he would say ..is that all you think about is sex ..i used to think he just wasnt into it ..wow was i wrong ..he got off everyday ..just wasnt with me ...cathy